The first ever MS Can’t Stop Me young adults conference took place this weekend, and I was so happy to be a part of it! Being the first event like this, it was a bit smaller, almost like a trial run of it with about 30 or so young people in attendance, but it was really great! I met some really awesome people, with or affected by MS. There was an amazing feeling of comraderie and inclusion the whole time, and I was so thankful to be there in the midst of it.
During the conference we had some great speakers, and I was lucky enough to be a part of a panel discussion. It was my first time really speaking like that on MS related issues, and it felt really good to be a part of it. It was such a great weekend, tiring, but worth it!
I’m really hoping that this will become an annual thing, maybe even on a national level! It’s so important to make young people with MS feel like they have a community, I could just see it on the faces of the people there, and so many mentioned to me how much it meant to them.
It sure has been a while since I’ve posted anything here. I guess I sort of ran out of things to say, which anyone who knows me probably wouldn’t believe ;)
I’m not really sure at this point if anyone still reads this, but I thought I’d check in and hopefully get back into the swing of things. So, what’s new in my world? Well a lot actually! I’ve of course been dealing with the good old health issues as per usual, but other than the MS side of things, my life is going pretty darn well. I’m in the process of moving, which I’m sure nobody enjoys doing, but I’m excited because I’ve found a lovely place that I’ll be sharing with my lovely boyfriend! We’ve also planned a trip to Jamaica late November, so stay tuned for a travelling MSer post, Jamaica edition!
I’m also still volunteering, with the online forum www.shift.ms, and with the MS Society here in Canada. I’m currently lending a hand here and there with an upcoming conference they’re hosting for young adults living with, or affected by MS. I’m even going to be speaking on a panel discussion at it, so that’s pretty exciting! It’s going to be held in southern Ontario, so if by any chance someone out there reads this and is interested, or might know someone who is, just visit http://mssociety.ca/youngadultforum
So life is going pretty well in spite of all of the tough stuff, and it feels pretty good to be able to say that! It was recently my 3 year MSaversary (as I like to call it) and looking back to when this all started, I don’t think I really thought I would have a lot of the things that have come since then. I don’t think I truly believed I would find happiness, and was just grieving the things I lost instead of having hope for what I might gain. I’m pretty thankful for all the good that has come since then, and how I continue to get through it.
So that’s all from me for now, but I’ll be back!
Today is World MS Day. This year, we are asked to share what makes us “stronger than MS”. For me, what makes me feel strong are the people that support me through it everyday. First and foremost, my family, who I would never have gotten through the past few years without. Supporting me through every hospital visit, every doctors appointment, and every bad day. My friends, the ones that stuck around and continued to remember that I am still the person I always was, even though I may do things a bit differently now. Also the new friends that I’ve met because of my MS, who I am so very thankful for. My boyfriend, who makes me feel like it’s okay when I’m not up to doing something we had planned on, and understands no matter what, reminding me that it’s not my fault. These people all make it so I feel like I can get through it even when I’m at my worst, and remind me that I have to fight, even when I feel like I can’t.
For them, I try every day to be #StrongerThanMS
Back in the summer, I helped put together the filming of a great video project with the MS Society of Canada, aimed to reach out to young people with, and affected by MS. We shot these at my old film school with the help of some great volunteers, and I was really happy to be a part of it. I was able to do a few of the interviews, and was even on camera a little bit myself, which is not my usual area of expertise!
The campaign finally launched today, and I’m so proud to be able share it with you all! One of the first videos being featured is the story of Billy Talent drummer Aaron Solowoniuk (https://youtube.com/watch?feature=youtu.be&v=zG3CKDhlDLs) but there are many more to come, and all being hosted on a great site that my very own brother kindly volunteered his time to create (http://mystory.someonelikeme.ca)
Please check it out, and share with anyone you think may benefit from it!